So, I think it all started when my parents met each other… But let’s skip some of this and start with some definitions and I hope then we’ll see how you can be bi and enby/non-binary.
Bi (adj., sometimes noun)
Bi means sexual and/or romantic attraction to
– more than one gender
– people of your own and another gender
– people of your own and different genders
– two genders.
These definitions are overlapping with definitions of other sexual and romantic identities, like pansexual/romantic, polysexual/romantic, multisexual/romantic and so on. And that’s ok.
Non Binary, short enby (adj. or noun)
is an umbrella term for all genders that aren’t exclusive man or woman.
F.e. Enbies can be bigender (f.e. both man and woman), agender (no gender), genderfluid (gender changes quite often).
To learn more, you can start with the nonbinary wiki!
Sooooo….
Someone’s gender is fluid and are attracted to men and women? Bi enby.
A person don’t have a gender and they’re attracted to more then one gender? Bi enby.
A bigender person is attracted to their own and another gender? Bi enby.
An enby is attracted to people their own and different genders? Bi enby.
Someone’s agender and attracted to genderfluid and bigender people? Nice, they’re a bi enby!
Some people may use other terms, like pan, because they feel it fits better to their attraction and that’s ok.